Category Archives: self-help

Easy Reading is Damn Hard Writing

I have known people who thought the ultimate criticism was to have someone tell them that their manuscript was easy to read.  And I have known commenters who snickered about their ‘cleverly designed insult’ when saying just that about a piece … Continue reading

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Learning How to See

I looked out the window in my bedroom this morning and immediately saw the beauty of the various shades of green facing me.  Not only the soft sage of the curtains falling gracefully to the sides, and the deep forest green of the … Continue reading

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Updates

Thank you all for the wonderful well wishes, tips and advice, and sympathy during my husband’s recent ordeal with kidney stones.  We think it has passed.  When it first subsided we weren’t sure whether or not it had just moved … Continue reading

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Living in the Stone Belt

There is an area in the southern United States that extends from Washington, DC to Louisiana that is known as ‘The Stone Belt’.  I first learned about it a few years ago after being diagnosed with gall stones, though it … Continue reading

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Reader Recommended Books

You, dear readers, have spoken.  The list for favorite reads has been compiled and collected here for a quick print out to take to your bookstore, library, e-book download, or internet purchasing site. This is a marvelous variety of titles.  And … Continue reading

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Mother’s Day or Un-Mother’s Day?

For me, Mother’s Day is a sweet holiday that links me to generations of mothers who came before me and who will no doubt follow.  And it always looks like flowers in my mind. I come from a long line … Continue reading

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S is for Steam

Even Mother Earth needs to let off steam from time to time. The trick is to have enough space around you that you don’t burn the people who are closest to you. Women especially, tend to bottle up negative emotions … Continue reading

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R is for Ripples

It starts out imperceptibly small, the tiniest of lifts in the water. Suddenly, it fans out and out, rippling forward until it breaks against the land. This ripple effect reminds me of life. How many times have we told a … Continue reading

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Quotes for Writing and Life

I learned never to empty the well of my writing, but always to stop when there was still something there in the deep part of the well, and let it refill at night from the springs that fed it. Ernest … Continue reading

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Objectification

There is no question that women in today’s society are held to a high standard of beauty and sex appeal, even as they age. We say that men become ‘distinguished’ looking as their hair grays. We overlook their spreading waistlines … Continue reading

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